Sitting Bull's Legacy
The Lakota Sioux leader's relics return to his only living descendants
- By Jess Blumberg
- Smithsonian.com, October 31, 2007, Subscribe
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For a long time, I thought my mother was lying to me. The stories she told me versus the books I was reading were very different. Plus, when I was growing up there might be one history book with one paragraph about Natives in it and that's it. The books would always call us Sioux and my mother would call us Lakota. And the stories about my great-grandfather were hard to read because they called him a killer, the killer of [General] Custer. My mom never said anything like that. People need to understand what you're writing about. It's a difficult life to write about unless you have experienced it. I want to try to tell it from my heart; I speak of my great-grandfather with reverence and respect because he cared for his people and he was one of many Natives that exhibited love, care and compassion for them.
A lot of documentaries and textbooks misrepresent your history. How do you cope?
We have to understand how to look at the stories of Natives before they pass on into history. My main goal is to be the voice of my great-grandfather, straighten up all the myths and explain who he really was.
What is one misconception about Sitting Bull that you want to set straight?
He was not born on the bank of Grand River in South Dakota, but he was born on Yellowstone River, south of Miles City, Montana. That is one of the biggest misconceptions in Sitting Bull's history. It's a shock to most people because everybody reads the history books that say he was born in South Dakota. I went up there and visited this place south of Miles City; it's a beautiful place. I had this warm feeling in my heart when I was walking around there, and I knew that's where he was born. But, when I go to Grand River, I have a feeling of sadness because it's right near where Sitting Bull was murdered—not where he was born. This is what my mother told me. Also, he wanted to be known as a sun dancer. The sun dance is a ceremony that a man does where he gives all of his energy. You dance for four days with no food or water. This is dance for the people's health and fertility, and its main purpose is to help our culture go on.
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Jack Chanse Karl Rider, dad Claimed many things. He gave me a book that shows our family history, before he died. It is a recent book, it even shows Justin's death, (your "real" brother). You might find it interesting. I would take whatever dad said with a grain of salt. Have you ever seen a 1/2 indian with blond hair and blues eyes? i'm sure you have. we called him dad.
Posted by Justin Rider on January 12,2013 | 07:23 AM
My husband is related to sitting bull through sitting bull's sister. Would love to hear from or of relatives.
Posted by hannah reese on January 4,2013 | 02:30 PM
Answering the Howerton comment: "I have been told my dad's 3rd or 4th great grandmother was chief sitting bull's sister. The last name is Howerton. Does anyone have any information about this?" I don't know if this will help but we went back and searched our family tree and found that we are also related to chief Sitting Bull's sister. My last name is Montag and the first Montags of our family came to Wisconsin from Germany in the 1830's. Do you have any family connection with our surname?
Posted by Michael Montag on October 27,2012 | 06:13 PM
Knowing our ancestors whoever you are is so important. Hopefully people in the States and Canada are more inclined to record this kind of info in the future to avoid confusion. As for the many claims to bloodline, dna tests, tribal registries, birth certificates, blood degrees, paperwork and bureaucracy, he was a leader and a holy person and that is far more important as a whole to our people. He's every Lakota person's grandfather in a way, and although I'm glad his belongings were repatriated, there are museums full of objects that were stolen from us. Also, if someone is related to people like this in our tribe, you better believe the people who need to know, do. If YOU aren't sure, then it probably isn't so, I'm sorry to say.
Posted by Hehaka Gleska on April 9,2012 | 11:31 PM
I am not descended from Sitting Bull, lol. But seriously, as a person who is descended from enslaved blacks whose identity may never be known, I am happy when a family finds the answers and the truth. God Bless your family.
Posted by virginia hernandez on February 29,2012 | 05:31 PM
I was raised and told sitting bull was my great great grandfather. my grandmother was IDA WEED STARLING LANGSTON. HER MOTHER WAS LOUISANA MELVIN SHOLAR ( LUCY ANN). I'M just trying to find out if he is actually our grandfather.
Posted by GALE on October 11,2011 | 03:19 PM
To whom it may concern;one of the granddaughters of sitting bull(Little Flower)also known as May V. Sharp who died at age 87 in sacramento and was a full blooded Hankpapa sioix.I remember when I was A little boy being told storys by my great grandmother (little flower)allthough I dont remember the storys themselves.May V. Sharp was survived by her children,one of which is (Silver Leaf Files)whom is my grandmother.She died A few years ago.And she was survived by one of her sons (James Rider)my father.Also known as (Ray Rider).He also died not to long ago and I am his last living son.(Jack Chanse Karl Rider)I am in the prossess of getting facts together so that I too may know where I come from and become part of the souix nation.
Posted by Jack Rider on September 8,2011 | 02:20 PM
im trying to see if im really related to sitting bull my grandmother told me he is a distant cusin or uncle. I'm also related to Hiawatha my grandmother is jocyemarie haiwatha redd ( now divorced) my my great grandmother (barbra geane or jean da frenchi or frenchy lived or the reservation. i don't know forsure with my granfather (richard) who is dead which was blackfoot.Can anyone help me?
Posted by Danelia marie pooler on May 23,2011 | 12:17 AM
One of Sitting Bull's sons lived on Judge Wren's farm near Kevil, Ky. He had at least two girls and a son. One of his grandsons had a wife who may still live in Paducah, Ky. His daughter has a son she named Cheyenne Sitting Bull. They went back to the reservation.
White Buffalo had Sitting Bull's pipe. (The date scratched on it when he was in England) These things I know.
Posted by fain russell on April 5,2011 | 01:58 PM
the most important truth of the native american heritage is that a soul reincarnates. we are all one and if there is discordance it has come from within. sitting bulls name means one who sits down. your heritage does not make you higher or lower its your heart that determines your worth and those with a pure heart bow or sit to understand the situation rather than puffing up and describing who their family members were. the great grandson knew this when he was older because the humility and respect he learned were earned on his own behavior not the backs of those that came before him. i listed my true names on this blog to laugh at myself because none of those names aptly describe me they are limitations that try to define me. true native freedom is found in being who you really are destined to be. being is a verb so is sitting its action within.experiencing the freedom of yourself should be the point of discussion. what have you been witnessing doing seeing loving being im all ears
Posted by CRISTINA MAE BULL WOODS HUTTO PARISH on October 17,2010 | 11:25 AM
As I see Sitting Bull has a lot of people trying to find the fact's that their grandparents told them stories of how they where related to the great chief! He must of been quite the lady's man? Then I must be directly related too? Funny ? maybe a little? Seriously though i have a few questions and will try to give more info than than just names.From my grandparents stories I was told he had a granddaughter named Morning star? But was adopted buy a white family at a very young age.Her given white name is Lottie E Jones. Estimated birth year 1879 in Arkansas. I do have more info on her but its all to do with her white family. Finding out if Sitting Bull had a grand daughter named Morning Star? And if that were true everything would fall into place! It would be great to learn of this. Would I contact the federal registry on this? I need to know about her native family.And if this is even true. Please E-mail info!! Thank you Caleb Wyatt
Posted by Caleb Wyatt on September 5,2010 | 04:31 AM
It's always better when the truth is spoken. Somtimes we go through life by seeing what's in front of us and not experiance it for ourselves. Love everyone hate no one. Let your heart be kind and let your spirit be free. Please dont judge a life by the false books and words society shows you. Be blessed by helping another and pray for the world and the people in it.
Posted by Paul on August 5,2010 | 03:02 PM
Mr. LaPointe,
My grandfather always told me that Sitting Bull was my great, great, great uncle. I only have his word of this, I can't find any proof. If you know any information that can help me, I would appreciate it. Standing Rock agency has sent me as much as they know. My great grandmother is (Mary Joy To the Nation) and my great great grandparents are (Apearing Cloud and Afraid Of Nothing). My grandfather was James Daniel Gayton of Gaytons Landing in North Dakota. Sam Gayton was my great uncle. Does any of this ring any bells?? It doesn't hurt to ask, I would just like to find some proof yes or no, it's just something I've always wanted to know. Thank you for your time,
Rick Brillhart
Posted by Rick Brillhart on June 20,2010 | 02:42 PM
Mr. LaPointe,
I believe that your mother went to school with my brother-in-law's mother. Her name was Helen Mesick. She was raised in Highmore, South Dakota. She also went to St. Mary's Nursing School in Pierre, SD. She is deceased, but I think it would be interesting to see if they really were roommates. She was born 7/7/1920 & in her obit it was stated that she was a "true daughter of the prairie, she was a roommate with one of Chief Sitting Bull's granddaughters".
Thank you for any information you might be able to give me on this. I know it would be a pleasure to hear from you. Kay Yechout
Posted by Kay Yechout on February 16,2010 | 11:39 PM
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