A Yuletide Gift of Kindness
Seventy-five years later, Ted Gup learns the astonishing family secret about his grandfather's generosity during the Great Depression
- By Ted Gup
- Photographs by Bradley E. Clift
- Smithsonian magazine, December 2010, Subscribe
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My husband is a good farmer but we have always rented & that keeps us poor. When we were making good money he bought his machinery & paid for them, so we never wasted anything. He is only 32 & never had anyone to give him a help in starting....
& oh my I know what it is to be hungry & cold. We suffered so last winter & this one is worst.
Please do help me! My husband don't know I am writing & I haven't even a stamp, but I am going to beg the mailman to post this for me.
No wonder Edith May complained of the cold: she was Jamaican. She had fallen in love with an African-American man with whom she had been a pen pal. They had gotten married and moved to a farm outside Canton. Edith May's "little girl" was named Felice. Today she well remembers her fourth birthday, two days before Christmas. When the chores were done, she and her family went into town. She remembers the Christmas lights. Her mother took her to a five-and-dime store and told her she could have either a doll or a wooden pony you pulled with a string. She chose the pony. It was the only present she remembers from those hard times, and only during our conversation last year did it occur to her that B. Virdot's check allowed her mother to buy such a gift. Today, Felice May Dunn lives in Carroll County, Ohio, and raises Welsh ponies—a love of hers since childhood.
Helen Palm was one of the youngest to appeal to B. Virdot. She wrote in pencil on a slip of paper.
When we went over at the neighbors to borrow the [news]paper I read your article. I am a girl of fourteen. I am writing this because I need clothing. And sometimes we run out of food.
My father does not want to ask for charity. But us children would like to have some clothing for Christmas. When he had a job us children used to have nice things.
I also have brothers and sisters.
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This story touched my heart. Many are moved to give during this season. However, we need to remember that many, especially now, approaching 2011; are in need. Never in my lifetime have I known of such turmoil, everywhere and everything seems affected. Maybe at some time since 1957, my birth year, there have been struggles but not like we see today. My great or great-great grandfather was like the subject of this book. He was a landowner, farmer, store owner in the up-state of SC during the 20-30's. Things got so bad during the depression that he extended credit for food and goods to folks in the community and was mostly never repaid. He gave all the wealth he had, holding only the farm land at the time of his death. What a heartfelt legacy to our family.
Posted by Cindy Miller on December 28,2010 | 01:47 PM
For probably the 30th time last night I watched "It's a Wonderful Life". Images of the last Great Depression are once again fresh in my mind, bringing back the stories of grandparents and parents.
What a wonderful gift Mr Gup gave his family and all of ours by researching the wonderful Gift his grandfather gave so many. And the gift is all the more wonderful because his mother fished out that suitcase just in time for probably the last recipient, Helen Palm, to find out the name of her Santa Claus.
While Mr Gup terms this period "our own deepening recession", I feel he is being kind. We are living through the 4th Great Depression in 114 years ('93, '07, '29 and now '08). Each brought on us by the excesses of the Big Banks and Brokerages. The main difference this time is that FDR got us the Gift of Unemployment Benefit Insurance and Social Security and LBJ got our elders Medicare, and Bush43 got them "Part B". And Obama got the extension of Unemployment Benefits for many.
Otherwise, the "bread lines" and "soup kitchens" would be back in force instead of still swelling. But, they could surge yet, as thousands each week become "99 Weekers".
Posted by Whittier on December 25,2010 | 08:53 PM
I would think that if I were in that situation and was lucky to receive $5 - which was alot back then - I would have used it more wisely. I would have thought about the essentials first, and bought food for my family. I was sad to hear that material things were bought with the money B. Virdot gave them. Hopefully, some spent it more wisely.
Posted by Andrew on December 16,2010 | 03:55 PM
I grew up in the outskirts of Chicago. My father and mother both worked. My mother saved and rolled rubber bands and the foil from gum wrappers and other things. I remember men and even a family once knocking on the back door and Mom giving them food and some hand me down clothes. She would say by the grace of God we could be those people. The story brought tears to my eyes. Thank you so much for this story it helped me remember all the good things from the past.
Posted by B.E. King on December 12,2010 | 01:09 PM
One of the best articles that I have read in long time. I can remember my mother telling me about the Great Depression years. It make my heart feel good to read that there were individuals like Mr. Monnot "B. Virdot" in those trying times. I am sure that Mr. Ted Gup has a warm feeling in his heart and soul after finding out what his Grandfather had accomplished. I will not be on this planet to find out if there are individuals like him in today's trying times.
Posted by George C Morhack on December 12,2010 | 10:16 AM
My mother, was second & last child born in 1929 to her family. It was not a MOST happy occasion considering her last- generation- ancestors already immigrated to KY and later Canton, Ohio from Scotland to avoid poverty there. Well, I am sending this article to my children to read and will access the book, as well. Thanks for a wake up call to always help others who indeed are less fortunate than we are. Nothing beats the warm feeling of food in a child's hungry tummy unless it is some adequate clothing.
Posted by Lis Stewart on December 11,2010 | 01:50 PM
Touching, very touching. Each generation needs to be aware of the challenges faced by their predecessors and relatives. In this age of selfish consumerism (trust me, I am among the most selfish) and recession, all people must reach out to one another to lend help and support. How many of us can imagine not having food in the house, scratching out a meal from nothing? We worry about flat screen TVs, laptops, vacations, etc. Enough said. Moral to this story: help those in need now, right now--- someone may read of your generosity 75 years later and do the same to provide joy, restore dignity and demonstrate care.
Thanks for this story, it made my 2010 Christmas!
Posted by Alan Roberts on December 9,2010 | 10:47 PM
I remember reading this when I was a boy in the 50s.
A boy came home from school, and asked his grandmother for a cookie. She told him to wit 'til dinner. He protested that he was hungry! She offered him a piece of bread.
"Naw, I don't want a piece of bread!" he protested loudly.
She looked at him sadly, and said, "If you don't want a piece of bread, you are not hungry."
I don't know about him, but that sure made an impression on me, Thank God.
Posted by Bill Smith on December 9,2010 | 05:57 PM
What an outstanding article on giving at this time of year. The GIFT brought back memories of the hard times in our family in the mid 50's when my Dad was out of work with a family of 7 to feed.
It's so touching that this man felt a need to give and help others during the Great Depression. This kindness brought a lump to my throat and tears to my eyes while reading what he did to help others during their time of need. What an outstanding AMERICAN. We need more like him today more than ever.
Posted by S. M. Novotny on December 9,2010 | 02:58 PM
I grew up in Canton and was very touched by this article. It is also a bit ironic as on the same table where I sit and read this is a box of gifts and clothes bound for Canton for a family that is struggling. A friend and also former Buckeye sent out a request to help this family. Through her efforts, several people are contributing to make the holiday season brighter for those in need. Mr. Monnot was correct in saying "there is more real happiness in giving and making someone else happy than recieving".
Posted by T. HowardMcAtee on December 4,2010 | 03:07 PM
I well remember the depression years, I am 87 now. My grandmother always had a crust of bread and some left over coffee for the men who would come to the door hungry. I can still see them sitting on a bench in yard thanking her for their meager meals. I can remember the long lines in the "soup kitchens" We grew our own vegetables and canned many of them.
It was interesting to see how my grandmother used old socks and worn out clothing-they were never thrown out but were cut into strips and made into braided rugs. A saying frequently heard up in my New England country was "Eat it up, wear it out,use it up or do without." Old clothing was also cut into squares and made into "crazy quilts"
Posted by Marjorie Mead on December 4,2010 | 08:35 AM
Ted what a wonderful thing for him to do. I was not born at that time. My parents raised 5 girls with the sweat of there brow too. My dad was a welder by trade and when the company would have a shut down he would find jobs as a freezer salesman, work in a meat locker, sell shoes, etc. My mother worked as a cook at a school. We all had jobs since the age of 12. Mowing grass, detassiling corn, work in a drug store, (3 of us worked in the drug store) and so on. My father-in-law saved everything during the depression and I still have balls of twine and balls of foil I can't part with in the attic.
Posted by Deborah Friedrich on December 3,2010 | 06:07 AM
Brought me to tears.....God bless 'im!
Posted by K Krewer on December 2,2010 | 05:52 PM
I was a child of the depression, being born October 1929. My earliest memories was to save everything, even a piece of string. If I didn't eat my "meal", it was saved for later. Santa Clause didn't like me as he passed by our house! But I was lucky that an apple and orange appeared in my oatmeal box left outside by the front door. My family left Kentucky and went to California in 1937. It took us 8 days to travel, nights beside the road sleeping under the stars and my mom cooked on a 2-burner stove of some kind for our meals of biscuits or whatever. We finally got to Calif. and settled in a small community of people from Okla., Arkansas, Tenn., Texas and Colorado. I remember Calif. referred to as the land of milk and honey. Actually, it was the oilfields and orchards that beckoned. Life was certainly much better than before. I remember much more of course, but enough for here.
Posted by Pauline Pelly on December 2,2010 | 03:11 PM
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